If you use single ended bulbs unshielded they have ZERO disadvantage in PAR all other things being equal(bulb brand/kelvin and ballast). It really comes down to space. If you have limited space (want to use VHO supplements, small tank ect) go with the double ended. If space is of no concern go with the single ended. SE have a broader range of reflectors and bulbs to choose from UNLESS you plan on using a HQI ballast in which case there are only a few ideal choices of SE bulbs (radium, sunburst, aquaconnect).
Either way 250wx2 is the ideal halide set up
doesn't polish stainless steel turn a goldish tarnished color when heated (at least my polished SS muffler/tips do)? I dont think stainless reflects nearly as well, at least not long term. they probably dont dissapate heat as well. Stick with the norm, dont try and ger innovative on a 15yr old formula (probably much longer if you include horticulture).