I have been lucky with the anemone. It has stayed put since I put it in the tank... I think it is doing great where it is.. It is able to have it's base or foot I guess it is called tucked way up under the rock where it is at... It get's good flow where it is, and great lighting, so I guess it is content... It has grown quite a bit... Hopefully it will not get too much larger... I have had only minor problems with it stinging neighboring corals... Once in awhile it will brush against one, and the coral will close up for a little, but it really doesn't bother much... I have a gold maroon clown that is hosting it...
As far as it staying blueish, with the 14k bulbs, it will... That is what the higher color temp of the bulbs will do... The 10k spectrum is not blue at all.. Kind of like a yellowish white.. I did not like that look, so I went with the 14K for more of a blue coloration... The reason I may eventually switch to the XM 15ks is that they appear to have a much more crisp white look from the Pics I have seen.... I am running the CoralVue's, and I am not all that impressed with them, but they will have to suffice for a while longer.....
Thanks for all the comments!