My 17 yr old son is a drummer, he started on some roland electrics but never really liked them. I bought a set of Taye rockpros and Zildjian ZXT pro ti cymbals, Man did his playing skills sky rocket, just from having something he thought was good and putting a lot of practice time in.
The Rockpros are currently in negotiations to be sold, the new set, which will be bought with the money from that sale and his summer job, will be a DW product. Currently he is looking at the PDP FX 7 peice set and the all white 805's.
He is really excited about making the purchase on his own, but still keeeps asking me if I think the're cool. ( neat time for me).
Our favorite drummers are Neil Pert and Tony Royster Jr.
Remember to have fun, and get what sounds good and looks good to you. The only other advice is to not skimp on Hardware, it always get replaced with something better when it breaks, and cheap hardware will break, Lord knows my wallet knows that.