Can I get a pity party?
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vyperone
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Care to elaborate...?? I have a 18 and 19 year old that I need my own party for.... email me offline if you like scott@gutauckis.com
cindyski
Active Member
vyper- do you have girls or boys? (just curious) i will e-mail you i am sweetmamaski@yahoo.com. to make a long story short for anyone else that wants to participate i my party, the cops are after her lazy a** boyfriend and i allowed them to come over yesterday for dinner to talk some sense into him, but he has got a brain the size of a snail (if that) i told her if she left with him i was going to call the cops, so she did, and i did. which leads me to---
purity--- i'll take the stress, hangover party if thats what you would like to participate in:sleepy:
purity--- i'll take the stress, hangover party if thats what you would like to participate in:sleepy:
saltymom
Member
Awe.. man. I'll pity ya Cindy, even if it Monday and I was up ALL night long with a sick flu stricken child! (thats close enuff to to having a hang over, aint it purity?! lol)
Poor Cindy!! It will get better. If its that bad, it cant get too much worse. Look on the bright side. and stay positive! *HUGGLES*(((CINDY
I know the Hell I put my parents thru when I was a teenage girl.
...and I know paybacks are commin for me.
Poor Cindy!! It will get better. If its that bad, it cant get too much worse. Look on the bright side. and stay positive! *HUGGLES*(((CINDY
I know the Hell I put my parents thru when I was a teenage girl.
...and I know paybacks are commin for me.
flydan
Active Member
Hey,
I became an instant stepdad about 6 years ago. Stepdaughter is now 18, stepson is 22. There are times when I want to
but it's been worth it in the long run. I've found if I can just keep from saying something right away and wait til tempers aren't quite so raw I get much better results. I've even written letters to my stepdaughter so I'm not "In her face." or sounding to preachy.
It's all good!
HTH,
Dan'l
I became an instant stepdad about 6 years ago. Stepdaughter is now 18, stepson is 22. There are times when I want to
It's all good!
HTH,
Dan'l
purity
Member
Originally posted by saltymom
I know the Hell I put my parents thru when I was a teenage girl.
...and I know paybacks are commin for me.
paybacks CAME to me. i put my mom through HELL when i was a teenager. she had to pay for rehabs, watch me fail outt've every class, disrespectful attitudes, etc, etc...
well i had some roomate issues earlier this year that cost me a LOT of money. i will chalk that up primarily to pot- a drug that makes you lazy & full of procrastination at others expense.
anywayz, about yer daughter dating a moron. well......that's tough because there's NO way to talk common sense into a teenage girl that thinks she's in love. i guess all you can do is just love her unconditionally and always be there for her.
saltymom
Member
oh boy..that sounds like me 18 or 20 years ago.
druggie boyfriend. cops. my parents wanted to kill me.
I got with him when I was 16. Luckily for me, I never got into the drugs or anything like that..I never even tried smoking cigerettes (of anykind) but my parents wouldnt have believed that anyway..given the company I was keeping.
long story short here..
The more my parents tried to talk sense into me, the worse I got, the more they tried to help, the farther they pushed me away. Finally one night in a crank induced rage, he beat the livin hell outta me..and the cops had to come and get me, take me to the hospital ~having a miscarriage and him to jail. After that my parents backed off..left me alone. They couldnt take it anymore..I never felt more alone. After I got home from the hospital, he beat the S#*% outta me again, luckily the nieghbors heard and called the police. They came and got me one more time. it was then that I seen who the angels were, dragging the no good slimebag off of me and hauling him to jail again. They came in blue uniforms and saved me not once but twice. FINALLY I saw the light. I was 20 years old. They took me to my dad that night..and I never ever looked back at that life again. Id had enough. Finally.
Youre not alone, Cindy. I think everyone must have to go thru this crap at some point in some way or another.
Im so sorry for what I put my parents thru in those years..and hopefully your daughter will wake up before she gets hurt like I did. Im sorry you have to go thru it too. .
*More huggs for you Cindy*
druggie boyfriend. cops. my parents wanted to kill me.
I got with him when I was 16. Luckily for me, I never got into the drugs or anything like that..I never even tried smoking cigerettes (of anykind) but my parents wouldnt have believed that anyway..given the company I was keeping.
long story short here..
The more my parents tried to talk sense into me, the worse I got, the more they tried to help, the farther they pushed me away. Finally one night in a crank induced rage, he beat the livin hell outta me..and the cops had to come and get me, take me to the hospital ~having a miscarriage and him to jail. After that my parents backed off..left me alone. They couldnt take it anymore..I never felt more alone. After I got home from the hospital, he beat the S#*% outta me again, luckily the nieghbors heard and called the police. They came and got me one more time. it was then that I seen who the angels were, dragging the no good slimebag off of me and hauling him to jail again. They came in blue uniforms and saved me not once but twice. FINALLY I saw the light. I was 20 years old. They took me to my dad that night..and I never ever looked back at that life again. Id had enough. Finally.
Youre not alone, Cindy. I think everyone must have to go thru this crap at some point in some way or another.
Im so sorry for what I put my parents thru in those years..and hopefully your daughter will wake up before she gets hurt like I did. Im sorry you have to go thru it too. .
*More huggs for you Cindy*
lovethesea
Active Member
oh lord I dread the teen years. Hopefully things will shape up for you. I don't know about where you live, but in the state of MO, of her BF is over 18 he can be arrested for taking a minor accross state line, statory ---- and kidnapping. It happened not to long ago here to a guy that sounded like a similar story to yours. Now he is doing time and will have to register as a --- offender upon his release.
Try to stay postive and take a deep breath!
Try to stay postive and take a deep breath!
bradttu
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Keeping the humor alive! Read it, learn it, live it!click here
In all seriousness, everything will work itself out with time...and with the help of the occasional beating. Good luck!
In all seriousness, everything will work itself out with time...and with the help of the occasional beating.
Good luck!
saltymom
Member
lol.. reminds me of the time when I was 8 yrs old in Kmart. I wanted these fuzzy bunny slippers. My dad said NO. Well..I slipped them into the cart when he wasnt looking and when we got to the check out counter...he made me take and put them back. Well I was pissed. My brother said something smart to me and a chase thru the isles insued. In the process a fire extinguisher got knocked off a pole. Somehow it started spraying foam EVERYWHERE in the clothes dept. I got the ass beating of my life. My dad whipped my ass in a circle right there in the middle of Kmart infront of God and everybody. He had me up by one arm, to where my feet where barely touching the ground while I was trying to run away! Hence the phrase "My dad whopped me in a circle"
My brother got it too. I dont remember the ride home.
My brother got it too. I dont remember the ride home.
black99l
Member
lol.. reminds me of the time when I was 8 yrs old in Kmart. I wanted these fuzzy bunny slippers. My dad said NO. Well..I slipped them into the cart when he wasnt looking and when we got to the check out counter...he made me take and put them back. Well I was pissed. My brother said something smart to me and a chase thru the isles insued. In the process a fire extinguisher got knocked off a pole. Somehow it started spraying foam EVERYWHERE in the clothes dept. I got the ass beating of my life. My dad whipped my ass in a circle right there in the middle of Kmart infront of God and everybody. He had me up by one arm, to where my feet where barely touching the ground while I was trying to run away! Hence the phrase "My dad whopped me in a circle"
sorry i couldn't help but to laugh at that one.
sorry i couldn't help but to laugh at that one.
