a little over a year ago, we had a member who was banned, for pushing his ideas and actually soliciting members to get his 'things' going. Although free and not any direct competition for swf, it did lead to a ban b/c he too would not follow the appropriate steps and listen to the rules. Soliciting is against the rules, even if you are not soliciting for money.
I would be very careful in how you decide proceed, form this point(you actually could harm the work you have done). I understand that you had emailed admin asking for permission, What I would do(if anything at this point) is:
Wait for their response,and no matter the answer you get, I would follow and listen to it. And DEFINTIELY NOT try to start an issue over it, citing the responses recieved and the results of your polls. If it goes good great, if not, then it is their decision and if for no other reason than respect for our sponsors, who allow us to use this space FREE of CHARGE AND OBLIGATION, We should HONOR AND RESPECT their decision.
No different than if you go to someones house and tehy ask you to not spit on their floor, you should follow their house rules.
As well, to keep posting polls, to use as arguements, is definitely not going to get you anywhere with anyone in life, in fact I am quite surprised that this was left to go this long.