As far as your questions go:
No, I'm not a vegan.
I feed my fish mush that I make out of many various things, lots of which consist of frozen seafood that I cut up myself.
I have a mandarin; he's my favorite fish. I have a fuge full of pods and I am glad they get eaten on a regular basis (mandarins primarily eat ostracodes, but that's a different discussion).
I certainly didn't mean to "get on anybodies case". I was just trying to share my experience and give my opinion. I had a harlequin for about 4 months and all he did was eat everything in site. I suspect he killed a few tankmates, even though he was spot fed meaty foods every other day. Finally, I think it's pretty awful to "saw" the leg off of a live starfish, just to feed it to an animal who will eat anything. If someone had an aggressive tank, and sawed a body part off a specific live animal to feed to a fish who will eat anything anyway...well, I'd think that were pretty awful, too. For you to be so confrontational, and personally attacking, over my pretty simple statement is pretty immature. Have a great day.