distressed and dismayed

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glazer

Guest
First off would like to say hi to everyone, long-time lurker to this board (some others as well) but just registered, I was feeling kind of left out as many times I have had questions myself or perhaps even what some might consider some useful input,sooooo why not join in...
 
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glazer

Guest
whoa sorry, my bad, hit the wrong key.... hehe
Anyway.... being new here I feel somewhat out of place jumping on my soap box buuuuut have to get this off my chest.
The internet has been a blessing to me, having a very busy work schedule just being able to click "order now" and have the goods sent to my front door is wonderful! I happened to be in a LFS this past weekend (having not been in any for gawd I don't know how long now) and what I saw/heard was almost too much to bear. I watched an employee sell a gentleman a 20 gal tank, sand,heater, filter,salt, ect., ect., then proceed to bag up three fish after telling him how EASY it really all is..... a yellow tang,manderine goby and a royal gramma (all beautiful creatures) Being the big nosey that I am, I said to the man, "Sorry, I was just wondering, are those fish for a tank you already have or the one you are buying?" His answer... "No don't have a tank, just getting started now"
OMG! "Dude, those fish are all gonna be dead before the day is done!!!!!" Before I could finish, I was told to mind my own business by the customer and told to leave the store by the employee. Thus the distressed and dismayed....
I have seen alot of posts on here by people who have apparently jumped or dived as it may be, headlong into a full blown reef set up and it would seem as though they have never even kept so much as a goldfish before.
I just find this disturbing.... I am all for this hobby it is truly wonderful, I wholeheartedly reccomend it to any and everyone. But it is soooo sad to see people bring home such beautiful animals THEN try to figure out how to successfully keep them. Sure I have lost fish and some corals in the past and feel really bad about it to this day... but I thought I was ready, there was soooo much more to know yet.
I have a small reef tank now that I have been maintaining with a few fish, and some killer 'shrooms along with a few other softies... All animals that qualify as reasonably "easy" (useing that term loosely) to keep. I am now in the process of setting up another tank and this time want to get a little more daring... thus the constant researching and reading.... I have decided that I am going to go with all "aqua-farmed" and "tank-raised" rock and critters.... Should I be unsuccessful with anything, I would hate to think that it was plucked from its happy home in the wild only to die at my hands for lack of knowledge on how to keep it happy and healthy. Maybe this isn't the perfect way to go about it but at least it makes me feel better. Make sense?
Should I shut up now?
P.S. I feel better now .... hehe
 

goldrush

Member
We all "feel your pain",and I think most of us agree with you 100%. As far as "changing the world",maybe I've gotten a bit cynical over time,but I just try to do what's right in deeds and words,and hope others look at it as an example of how they should lead thier lives.Welcome to the board,I hope you enjoy your visits here.Most posters that I've seen here I'm sure share our philosophy.
 

m i r a g e

New Member
I know what you mean.. People don't want to listen to you when you try to save them money and fish lives. A lot of people have to learn the hard way which takes a handful out of thier wallet, and results in the death of the beautiful creatures taken from the ocean.
Oh and just so you know.. you can edit posts. One of the mods just made a post on how to do that...
 

twoods71

Active Member
Welcome to the board and good luck with the new tank.
From what I read above it sounds to me like you do your research so I am sure the new setup will be just fine. ;)
 

broomer5

Active Member
Welcome to the board glazer !
I admire your conviction and approach to this great hobby. What you said at the lfs to this customer was the right thing to say - even if your words fell upon deaf ears - you tried, and that's the main thing in my book.
Sometimes you can't change an ignorant person's mind.
I tip my Hard Rock Cafe ball cap to you, and enjoyed reading your post !
I agree with my friend twoods71 ....You'll do just fine, I'm most sure of that.
 

jim672

Member
Welcome Glazer! I'll add my thanks to the sharks for your attempt to save some precious lives.
One question: will you shop at that LFS again? :mad:
Jim
 

ruaround

Active Member
Unfortunately the greed of some LFS doesnt realize the value of patronage! They prey on a very big problem with people today: INSTANT GRATIFICATION. Todays mind set is right now right now right now...Did I mention I need it now? It is unfortunate but, it is a buyer beware world.
 
Welcome aboard.
Unfortunately if a person has kept freshwater they are used to an instant tank. It takes a while to realize that salt is different for some people. Not everyone learns the same way. I am a researcher then I buy, some though will jump in then ask questions. If the LFS is greedy they will prey on those folks. It is most unfortunate and frustrating to those of us who take time to learn. We have all seen it happen and gotten the same treatment you got. I'm sorry.
Good luck with your new tank.
 
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