Do ya know, Don't ya wonder................

spanko

Active Member
Why some people feel the need to make a public statement about leaving the site. I hate the site because..................I hate the people because..............
Still others just fade off into the sunset..........Mimzy......Kat.........Bonita69.....
 

aquaknight

Active Member
I guess those that fade into the sunset either truly disagreed with something, or just found somewhere esle. Those that feel the need to make a statement are really just getting one last publicity grab....
 
Some people feel the need to get the last word in or to get something off their chest!
Knowing they are leaving they will not have to deal with the feedback
 

renogaw

Active Member
i was wondering about dreams44, and some others. i think the fading away without a stink makes it easier to come back
 

spanko

Active Member
Agree totally Ren. That is why I don't understand the need for that last dig. Kind of like burning your bridges behind you don't you know?
 

renogaw

Active Member
unfortunately, grass is never greener. but oh well... makes room for us to get to know others!!!
 

alix2.0

Active Member
Originally Posted by bigarn
http:///forum/post/2949782
I don't think Mimzy has faded away .... just hasn't been around lately.
she told me she was plannin on... not being around so much anymore. bummer.
hehe... i dont miss bonita69. i wasnt such a fan.
 
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tizzo

Guest
I faded a coupe of times in the past, but it has nothing to do with the people or the sight. Sometimes, people just get busy.
I think that's what happened to RazorEQX, Thomas719 (#-?), and a whole bunch of others who's avatars I can see in my mind, but usernames, I have forgotten...
And m0nk...
 

petjunkie

Active Member
LOL! I get a big kick out of people who do that. Like a three year old. "I'm never posting here again" Are you going to blow raspberries at me next? Need a pat on the back that people care? Then are they lurkers after that? I've left and come back a few times but it's more due to activity on here or what's going on at home, in the summer I spend too much time outside and forget about the tanks.
 

spiderwoman

Active Member
OK could someone enlighten me what happened to Snake? he got fed up with us how?
I do miss Bonita, she was cool.
Just in case anybody was wondering, I haven't faded anywhere, just too busy with work and family and haven't had any huge problems with my tanks :)
 

spanko

Active Member
Things were kinda weird when snake left. I quit posting for a few days there too about the same time. Hard to really stay away for me though, too many nice people here, even amongst the not so nice.
 

joe____17

Member
I talk to Snake regularly. He left because people were becoming too uptight and too many political threads clogging up the aquarium.He has found a new forum to call home.
 

wattsupdoc

Active Member
I thought it was over the "ask me anything" thread he started. Evidently he didn't mean "anything" when the questions got too personal he slithered out.....
 

reefforbrains

Active Member
I have the market cornered on wandering in and out of the discussions here.
At times I am gone for months but I always resurface later. I am the odd duck already. I know most, most know me. No harm in getting busy with living your life. We abuse these poor boards to almost chat levels but the nitty gritty of most really great threads take months to evolve so it always works out.
Nice to be missed, but borderline scary to be stalked via email if your gone for a few days/weeks.
-JMO....not like anyone asked
 

bluering09

Member
In my case I honestly though for some reason I was banned, or someone told me never to come back or some like that. But I have been just trying to work on my addiction of purchasing corals (as funny as that may sound it used to be a big problem to my bank account) but now that I trust myself enough I m going to start my tank back up again and see where that gets me this time.
 
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