Dudes.....

[fishkiller]

And JUST dudes..... Who is pissed off at their fiance/girlfriend/wife right now?? PLEASE somebody chime in and vent! I'm sitting on my -$% at home while she is out with her friends for a birthday downtown. GUESS WHO WASN'T INVITED?!?!?!!!! I wouldn't be so mad, but this happened EXACTLY 1 week ago, like to the minute! Only it was just "girls' night out" night. She just made an actual friend when she met this chic a couple weeks ago. They have been hanging out a lot, but this sh-- is getting old! I trust her and what not, but I would have liked to have gone out! Or at least a warning so that I could make my own plans..... Oh well... Just me and Mr. Johnny Walker tonight guys..... FEEL FREE to put in your own $.02.... Thanx for listening...

 

[mimzy]

...um... Fishkiller?
...I'm not a dude... but.... that really sux. I'm sorry you got shafted

At least you've got that awesome dog to keep u company! :happy:

 

[fishkiller]

yeah my doggies KICK A**!! Thanx.. They are eating dinner right now. (crunch crunch crunch).... Hear em?

 

[mimzy]

oooh! you have more than one?? are they all wolf hybrids??
post pix! post pix!!! :jumping: :jumping:

 

[snailheave]

pwnd

 

[birdy]

My husband does that crap to me all the time, it gets old fast. He always says he is "working" at the body shop that his truck is at, but I know he is just hanging out with the guys drinking beers and telling stories, meanwhile I am stuck at home all day with twin two year olds, AND when I do get out of the house it is only because I am working my side job of maintaining aquariums......

 

[007]

Have you two been dating a while?
I've been with my fiance for over 6 years now and trust me . . . . I look forward to her "girls night out".

 

[denny80689]

I was just thining the same thing. Girls night out is a blessing

 

[scubanoah]

yes, amen for girls night out. it does kinda suck when she doesnt give you a heads up either. do you get any guys only nights out?

 

[tangman99]

Well that "And JUST dudes..... " worked real well didn't it?

You of all people should know the best way to get a woman to chime in and give her opinion is by telling them you don't want it.

Fishkiller, you and I usually see eye to eye most of the time, but I kind of have to agree with the idea that I enjoy it when my wife has a girls night out and I get the place to myself or go out and do my own thing. Of course, she does always let me know ahead of time so I can figure out what I want to do. (Like supporting the Single Moms)

Again, there was a time when I wanted to spend every minute with her, but those days are long gone.

I love her to death, but I like my alone time too. Especially on my motorcycle out on a winding road.
Good luck Bro! I'm sure a few shots of JW made it all alright.

 

[f1shman]

Of course, she does always let me know ahead of time so I can figure out what I want to do. (Like supporting the Single Moms)
Oh ya, giggity giggity giggity

 

[fishkiller]

Oh don't get me wrong. I love the space too. Buuuuut, not when I have to go pick up three drunk chix at 3 am when I have to work at 8 am. We have been together for 5 1/2 years, and we have a VERY functional relationship. Geez, how can I say this without sounding perverted..... Oh well, here it goes.. She digs chix too. It makes for a real interesting weekend once a month or so. We have been kinda "between girlfriends" the past couple months. Trust me, I know I need to be careful in more ways than one. I am very careful, and she is very respectful about it. Hey, as long as she shares, it's cool with me... Very cool... I know the girls on here are going to think I'm a s***head, but you can't blame me! I would have to kick MY OWN a** if I got rid of her. You seriously would not believe what it does for a relationship. It's a beautiful thing! (Getting choked up) But it's a great way to let loose and feel the freedom of single-mingeling life without the dry spells!

 

[tangman99]

Originally Posted by fishkiller
Oh don't get me wrong. I love the space too. Buuuuut, not when I have to go pick up three drunk chix at 3 am when I have to work at 8 am. We have been together for 5 1/2 years, and we have a VERY functional relationship. Geez, how can I say this without sounding perverted..... Oh well, here it goes.. She digs chix too. It makes for a real interesting weekend once a month or so. We have been kinda "between girlfriends" the past couple months. Trust me, I know I need to be careful in more ways than one. I am very careful, and she is very respectful about it. Hey, as long as she shares, it's cool with me... Very cool... I know the girls on here are going to think I'm a s***head, but you can't blame me! I would have to kick MY OWN a** if I got rid of her. You seriously would not believe what it does for a relationship. It's a beautiful thing! (Getting choked up) But it's a great way to let loose and feel the freedom of single-mingeling life without the dry spells!
FishKiller, You are the luckiest Dude in the world. I submit to your superiority

 

[lovethesea]

 

[beth]

There is an easy fix to this. Next time she plans to go out and leave you behind, go along with it. Tell her, "That's just fine, honey". I'm glad you are finding friends and such. Then tell her that you actually might go on out too, maybe see a movie, or go out with some of the guys. Be enthusastic, get dressed, and beat her to the door making sure that you leave first! Make sure you don't get back til after midnight, then, just to spice things up, start coming home from work a tad late a few times a week, making some lame excuse.
After about 2 weeks of this, things should get back to the way it used to be. LOL

 

[fishkiller]

LOL!! AWESOME! Good plan Beth! I was actually thinking about that, but the extras you threw in are perfect! Leaving before her? Beautiful!! OOOOOO, How bout this? Wash the car up reeaally nice and shave. Then tell her I've been thinking of cutting my hair shorter for no reason at all. Hmm, we may have something here! Thanx Beth! You rock! :happy:

 

[michelle l]

You know what gets a woman's mind churning more than anything? When her man goes on a diet. (If he has a little bit of spare around the middle, that is..!)
Men don't diet unless they are trying to impress someone!!

 

[darth tang]

You could also actually go shopping one day and buy a bunch of new clothes. Then come home and throw a few of your old clothes out....This will get her thinking. Worked on my first wife.........but that did in divorce, so maybe my advice should be ignored.

 

[michelle l]

...and if none of this works, you'll still be lookin' hot afterwards!!

 

[nemo lover]

beths idea is a good one.
It sounds like you could be a little jelious that this chick is trying to take your woman away?