It is female, I'm not sure how old she is, but she is pretty docile, I've not had her but a couple of weeks, a friend asked me to sell her for him while he is gone for a little while (military). She is about 18 inches long and a little bit bigger around than a quarter. She is fine when you hold her. I don't have any pics yet but I will try and get some. as soon as I do I will post them. where are you located?
I am in CT. Shipping is pretty easy. Drop it off at Airborne before they close for delivery the next day.
She doesn't do the "show" when you try to remove her from the cage? No playing dead?
Does she eat unscented prey? Is she taking F/T?
Try to post a pic and maybe we can do something.
I'm not sure what F/T is but she does eat small rats, or large mice. No she really doesn't play dead when you pick her up. I just got a couple of pics of her, and I am going to go to the one hour place here. Hopefully I'll be able to post a pic of her later this evening.