Hi, I am rather new here, but I have asked this question before so I think I can at least get you pointed in the right direction. A protein skimmer is pretty much a necessity as you will need some way to remove the excess waste that your live rock and live sand cannot handle. A UV sterilizer is typically not such a good idea on a reef tank. Yes, it will kill most of the harmful bacteria in your tank, but it is not picky at all and will also kill the good bacteria, many of which the reef needs to survive. I would advise against a UV sterilizer, but if you really want the added security of a disease free tank then go ahead and use a UV sterilizer, but you will have to supplement much more. That is about all I can say on this topic as I have fairly limited knowledge. I'll turn this one over to the professionals. Hope this helps though.
Gray