Well, Star - they're right we need more info, to be sure.
Things like nitrate,nitrite, & ammonia levels, Ph level, SG level & water temp.
He some times looks like he is dying. He lays on his back for about 2 minutes and then swims around. He does it more after a feeding at night. Is this normal?
But based on this statement - I remains me of a condition that I've heard of that sometimes affects sharks(mostly- Horns & PJs), when they are overfed. They roll over on their backs & maybe even swim around upside down. The fact that it leasts only a few minutes is a good sign, because if it lasted for hours - it could end up killing your shark.
So reduce the amount food you feed him(a little), or just feed him little less often.
Also some additional about the Port Jackson.
Dual45s' right about their max. adult size - 5.5' long. although they usually average just 4.5' long.
And ams is right, As adults they do require a tank or pond of at least 1,000 gallons.
And like the Horn they are basically a subtropical shark - and tend to prefer water temps in the range of 65-75F.