Okay,
Going to type this out as I go.
Let's make some assumptions first. We'll assume that your existing overflow/sump/return pump are all functioning correctly now, and that you have everything hooked up as in your drawing.
First we'll walk through what can happen if the additional canister refugium pump is not turned on. This will help us determine the height that the refugium must be at in relation to the sump.
Stick with me here - I am thinking this out as we go
1) Start out at a steady state - power off scenerio, with no water in refugium, sump level at power off dark blue line.
2) Fill the refugium by hand pouring water up to the power off dark blue line.
3) Prime your pink gravity siphon line ( the old suck water and double thumb the ends of the hose trick )
4) Place one end of gravity feed line into refugium, the other in sump. If indeed the water levels are equal between the two - no flow. Power still off - steady state - water finds it's own level.
5) Turn on main return pump only - water travels up to display tank, sump level continues to drop until overflow kicks in, adding water back into sump, then at some point thereafter - we arrive at the new normal operating sump level - your light blue line.
6) Now since the water level in the sump is lower than that of the refugium, and if your siphon is good - you would see water beginning to move from refugium to the sump, raising the normal sump level to some new point in your sump as expected, and the gravity siphon will continue until either both sides are equal, or you drain too much from your refugium, exposing the siphon tube opening, and lose your prime, thus losing the siphon. It's a balancing act, one that requires you to play with the height of refugium vs sump, normal water levels vs power loss levels, and volume of water vs inches in level changes to both sides.
I can see now that you may want to not have your refugium siphon installed as in your drawing - with it's tube at the bottom of the refugium, but better yet get a bulkhead fitting and tap into the side of your refugium at some point up from the bottom. This would prevent the possibility of completely draining the refugium. Maybe you already thought of this and I have misundstood the drawing.
7) With that change in mind, it sort of blows my thought processes, so let me go refill my coffee cup.
8) Okay ... I'm back now
9) Think I may go and make a change to your drawing ..... it might make it easier to follow the next scenerio.
Be back later ...........