FK
There are an incredible amount out there to look at
What do you want to do
Targets
Hunting
Combo?
You have semi-auto
Lever action
single shot
too look into!
Hold on a sec
Have you taken your hunter safety classes yet?
If not then you need to get that done first.
You should find plenty of instructors there who would be more than willing to bring thier's in for you to try out then you can see which type you like the best.
On the friend or relative with you while you are hunting, I would consult the Game and fish web site in NJ, I am sure that is answered in the FAQ. I know most states do not require it, but that person had better not get caught carrying that firearm! Of course handing the firearm back and forth as you safely cross fences, etc, is not the same.