There are vendors that sell "house brands" of Dynamat. Dynamat is the original stuff and it's crazy expensive, but I think the house brands are a good bit cheaper.
Try googling Parts Express till you find their site, and search for Dynamat. They've got many versions of dampening material to look at.
IME the biggest thing you can do is to isolate vibration. Once a plywood stand starts vibrating, it becomes one huge speaker. Putting your sump on rubber feed as was suggested, putting a pad of filter media between your pump and the sump bottom if you use submersible pumps, they all help.
I've also created flexible junctions between the pumps and my hard plumbing using spa-flex, that works fairly well.
The biggest thing you can do if you are a stand builder is to close the gap between the stand and the wall. Most people build stands as a load bearing frame surrounded by a decorative "skin." By building it so the skin extends back past the frame, you can push the stand hard against the wall (even using weather strip to seal it against the wall) and still have room in the back for your hoses, wires, etc to pass from the back of the tank down below.