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reefkprz

reefkprz

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some one has been threatening to kill himself, his girlfriend, all her freinds, any one she communicates with. ETC. its a pretty crazy story and I am not going to go into details. tommorrow my finacee and a couple of friends are going to intervene, with the police. to remove her from his presence, she wants to go, but is scared of what may happen. obviously this is not a place to be. all precautions will be taken to ensure its a safe removal. I really dont like men that abuse women. We will be taking her into our house to live.
 
keebler

keebler

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Originally Posted by reefkprZ
http:///forum/post/2772828
some one has been threatening to kill himself, his girlfriend, all her freinds, any one she communicates with. ETC. its a pretty crazy story and I am not going to go into details. tommorrow my finacee and a couple of friends are going to intervene, with the police. to remove her from his presence, she wants to go, but is scared of what may happen. obviously this is not a place to be. all precautions will be taken to ensure its a safe removal. I really dont like men that abuse women. We will be taking her into our house to live.
Wow, that's so nice.
 
lovethesea

lovethesea

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does he know where you live? Will she have a restraiing order? I would now be concerned for your safety also. These situations are always very unpredictable. Hopefully he will get some psych help.
Be safe.
 
mimzy

mimzy

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good for you and very good luck to you all! does the abuser know your address? do you have children at home?
....may I suggest perhaps, if you don't already have them, purchasing some firearms and taking some safety/tactical courses?
restraining orders will only help you in court, AFTER an attack.
 
maxalmon

maxalmon

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Good for you guys.....Nice to see that there are people who care about other people...I hope all goes well, your a smart guy, just be safe.
 
reefkprz

reefkprz

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he doesnt at this point know where we live. we live in a school zone, if he wants to show up at my house with a shotgun and put it in my mouth like he said then he is welcome to do so. it will put him in jail for many years. he made a big mistake telling me he is crazy. crazy people think they are sane, he thinks he is crazy, threaten away. in the end the results will wind up with him either in jail or getting the mental help he needs, but the imortant thing is getting her (the woman in the middle) away from him and out of a bad situation.
as for safty courses, I have studied enough martial arts to know I am not a kung fu master, I am a redneck. My house is my castle, I can fight, I've been in enough fights to know him and I will never fight. he will scream, cry, cower, threaten, bluff, and more and in the end she is leaving. we are taking her stuff and the more noise he maks the better. we are peacefully going to go over there in a large crowd to avoid confrontation. its better than doing it with just a couple people where he might think he can cower a couple people with threats of guns. this is maine, every one owns guns, no one is scared of them.
 
mimzy

mimzy

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Originally Posted by reefkprZ
http:///forum/post/2772946
this is maine, every one owns guns, no one is scared of them.
an armed society is a polite society!

glad to hear it! my next suggestion is loading up a nice slug and then some double 'ought buck in the home defense 12g to keep under the beds at night, heheheh.
I can't wait to hear how this goes down - this woman is very fortunate to have you all as friends!!
 
nordy

nordy

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Good luck and lest us know how it turns out. You sir are a saint for doing this.
Sometimes a bully needs to have his bluff called, but it sounds deeper than that.
 
sharkbait9

sharkbait9

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Man for what its worth, your doing a good deed no one can fault that. Just be careful and have it on paper with the police that he threatened you with a shot gun. I don’t care who you are and what anyone studies, you can’t out run a bullet and shot guns have a wide pattern, like I need to tell a redneck this
. I can admit it of all the people i talk to on this board your one of the last people i want to hear getting hurt for a good deed.
Be cool be safe
 
sharkbait9

sharkbait9

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Originally Posted by Mimzy
http:///forum/post/2772990
an armed society is a polite society!

glad to hear it! my next suggestion is loading up a nice slug and then some double 'ought buck in the home defense 12g to keep under the beds at night, heheheh.
I can't wait to hear how this goes down - this woman is very fortunate to have you all as friends!!

True with the armed society is a polite

But you want to use dble 0 shot????? man come on??? A POS like this needs bird shot to the pelvic region to help stop any contaminated off spring this guy could potential create.
Maybe a under charged 45 cal to the pelvic region and ring his bell so on impact they don’t get ripped off but more just explode in the coin purse.
 
leopard_babe

leopard_babe

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I am glad to hear that you are going to help a woman in need out. I have been there and having a friend is the best thing in this situation.
So if things get really bad, you can always petition the "crazy" man.
I hope that everything works out. Keep her and your personal information on the DL
 
bionicarm

bionicarm

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Originally Posted by reefkprZ
http:///forum/post/2772946
he doesnt at this point know where we live. we live in a school zone, if he wants to show up at my house with a shotgun and put it in my mouth like he said then he is welcome to do so. it will put him in jail for many years. he made a big mistake telling me he is crazy. crazy people think they are sane, he thinks he is crazy, threaten away. in the end the results will wind up with him either in jail or getting the mental help he needs, but the imortant thing is getting her (the woman in the middle) away from him and out of a bad situation.
as for safty courses, I have studied enough martial arts to know I am not a kung fu master, I am a redneck. My house is my castle, I can fight, I've been in enough fights to know him and I will never fight. he will scream, cry, cower, threaten, bluff, and more and in the end she is leaving. we are taking her stuff and the more noise he maks the better. we are peacefully going to go over there in a large crowd to avoid confrontation. its better than doing it with just a couple people where he might think he can cower a couple people with threats of guns. this is maine, every one owns guns, no one is scared of them.
I congratulate you for what you are doing to help this woman get away from a very troubled relationship. However, I find it unnerving that you would think it would be OK for this maniac to show up at your door and stick a shotgun in your mouth because "It will put him in jail for many years." If he is as mentally unstable as he sounds, he may go to jail for many years, but you and who knows who else in your family will be six feet under. So just because everyone in Maine owns a gun, and no one is 'scared of them', does that mean you're also Superman and are impervious to a bullet?
 
snakeblitz33

snakeblitz33

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Good luck buddy. I hope all goes well.
Seems like every time I help a friend in need, they take advantage - oh well. lol. Like I said, hope everything works out, and I think you are doing the right thing!
 
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