Something else I thought of as I read over the "other" lionfish not eating posts (and you mentioned your's not eating)is the old "food" on a stick routine...
I'm not saying your doing this but...when you put a chunk of food on a stick and wave it franticly in front of his face it can actually freak him out rather than illicet a feeding response...
Think about it...Ever been to a campfire where someone cooks a hotdog ona stick and then waves it in front of your face, inches from your nose?
Would you try to take a bite?