Originally Posted by
Shinobi9119
http:///forum/post/2726006
true im just not one for schedules or deadlines. I like to procrastinate(actually I cant help it
) so if there is no deadline or date I find I can get stuff done haha
ugh. i suffer from procrastination-itis as well.
When I say structure I'm not talking about deadlines or due dates or consequences. I'm talking about having a prescribed method or algorithm or pattern. Often people will find themselves in such an incredibly stressful state that it becomes virtually impossible to "relax" without any sort of forced conscientious relaxation; ie meditation; ie fishing, painting, yoga, walking, shooting, excersising, chanting, etc.
Sometimes when you FORCE your brain to concentrate very hard on something you succeed in a general calming of your thoughts. For example, when I've had a stressful day and can't sit still or finish a thought and I get really worked up and upset, I take a yoga class. I have to concentrate so hard on my alignment, my breathing and my form that eventually I come to realize that I haven't been thinking at all about my terrible day for over an hour and now I am completely calm and rational again.
meditation is, indeed, what you make of it - but if you're looking for some good "tranquility meditation" techniques b/c u need a method for caming down your brain, check out the vids on YouTube - there's some great stuff on there. Search "meditation" or "how to meditate" or "tranquility meditation," etc.