Originally Posted by
reefraff
http:///forum/post/2514288
Thats the thing, if this is a close friend who still has feelings for the girl I wouldn't even think of it.
It simple.... just remember this little slogan and you cant go wrong..
Bro's before Ho... (ahem nevermind) jk jk
Seriously I am kidding, I couldnt resist.
Honestly, IMO Honesty is the best thing here. Talk to your buddy if in fact he is a close friend you will be able to get an honest answer from him. If not I still think you would be able to sense the true nature of his answer.
Secondly, her/she, is there a chance they are just taking a "break" from eachother. How well do you know her to get an honest answer? Is she really all set with him, moving on, has already? Its good to look out for your friends and I agree I wouldnt lose a friendship over a new relationship that involved the same person. But if its done and over with 100% its really not healthy for him to dwell on this. And eveyone must move on eventually. If it is truley over, dispite his feelings, inside he knows the truth. And if he is as good of a friend to you as you are to him. He should be happy for you both if they still talk.
Having said all that... Im sure its much eaiser said than done. Tough call without knowing the particulars of the relationship between all the parties.