Maybe Cranberry can help me fill in the blanks here but...
When I tried to deliver our 10lb 4 oz son, he didn't wanna come out. After about 24 hours of pushing and getting nowhere, my heart rate spiked (?), my blood pressure dropped and I think they said there was fever... anyway, it ended up being an emergency c-section. Although it wasn't "quite" near death, I know without todays medicinal benefits and advances, I'd be dead. So my son, my 3rd, which is my daughter and I, are all on borrowed time...