feeding them is tricky, some will eat food, does yours regularly eay??, ours eats pods in the sand, and forzen brine, we just have to give it to him, when we started, we used a turkey baster to feed him/her(actually ours is a she, but i just got used to saying him), this got the food down to HER(LOL), so she could eat before the others scarfed it all up, and now, we still use the baster,and when it comes out from the stand, she climbs to the top of our 110lb pile of live rock, and watches, soooooo cooooooooooool!!, but she likes shrimp, and now still eats it as a regular meal,b ut the pods are also in her face all day long, so you know how she eats,
how long you had her??, if you jsut got her, this may also be part of your problem, especially if she is not eating, watch her when you feed, if she is not eating, get her back to the lfs, ours will take them just to try and save them, and then after they start eating, they will resell them, didn't notice, you are new to the hobby? i fthis is the case, make sure both are eating well
HTH