Need Help!!!!

devil dog

devil dog

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Ok I was dating this girl and she was great! And I was having a lot of problems at work and problems with my business and I didn’t have a lot of time for her and I would blow her off and some times take it out on her… I know not good!

Well here it is... she got sick of this and I don’t blame her and broke it off…
Well I have got all of my stuff in my life back in check and I miss her so much and I want her back!!!!

So my question for you guys is what have you done in the past or what would you like to see from someone to get them back?

Thanks and if you didn’t know I’m a 28 year old guy…
DD
 
devil dog

devil dog

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Originally Posted by jennythebugg
http:///forum/post/2829792
be honest with her tell her exactly what you have told us, throw caution to the wind

I have tried that for the most part... she is very independent... and says she wants to find her self… I think its BS and she wants me to prove something… but what do I know… I’m the one that let it happen
 
kingsmith

kingsmith

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Man nothing like friday afternoon girl problems, one thing I wish I never did no wait 2 things first I never should have let my girlfriend go back to Korea
second I never should have broken my hand because I was dumb enough to let soemone treat me bad(different girl btw) But if you really want her back I would say do one and ONLY ONE very heartfelt appology explaining to her everything you have said here and want to say to her. But leave it at that don't want to seem to desperate, play it cool brother and GOOD LUCK
what more can I say I wouldn't be here today if the old school didn't paave the way
 
mimzy

mimzy

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do what Jenny said and then follow it with 3dozen pink peonies and tickets to a show.
SHOW her you're serious.
 
socal57che

socal57che

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Originally Posted by Devil Dog
http:///forum/post/2829807
I have tried that for the most part... she is very independent... and says she wants to find her self… I think its BS and she wants me to prove something… but what do I know… I’m the one that let it happen

Be persistent. Prove to her how interested you are.
Send flowerss to her...
A. home
B. work
C. parents house
D. classroom (if she's in college)
Then bring her some personally.
 
devil dog

devil dog

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Originally Posted by socal57che
http:///forum/post/2829798
Ditto that.
Even women find it hard to argue with honesty.
I hear you on that... and I am always all about the truth! I just think I can show her with something or doing something that will say more then words…
 
spiderwoman

spiderwoman

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Honesty, honesty, honesty.
You can only show in actions your true intentions and that takes time. Flowers unfortunately are pretty cheesy in a situation like yours. It works AFTER you've been honest to her, not before.
 
spiderwoman

spiderwoman

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After you've told her and if she doesn't believe you, then print this thread out and and show it to her. It shows the time and date you asked the question.
 
socal57che

socal57che

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Originally Posted by SpiderWoman
http:///forum/post/2829834
After you've told her and if she doesn't believe you, then print this thread out and and show it to her. It shows the time and date you asked the question.
Is it just me? I would consider that a little creepy.
Originally Posted by SpiderWoman
http:///forum/post/2829830
Flowers unfortunately are pretty cheesy in a situation like yours. It works AFTER you've been honest to her, not before.
My wife loves getting flowers in front of other people. (in any situation)
 
devil dog

devil dog

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WOW! This is hard you all say good things but they are all different... I will have to just open up and give my heart to her and hope she doesn’t break it...
And I'm so slow at this...lol
 
miaheatlvr

miaheatlvr

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IM SORRY'S, EXPLAIN, HONESTY, LOTS of FLOWERS AND throw in a MARIACHI SERENADE BAND if you have to get that drastic... I Had too on occasion LOL
There is no worse feeling than regret! and the old saying You dont know what you really have until its gone and I had to live this nightmare a few times.
 
socal57che

socal57che

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Go out of your way for her. Give up something you enjoy to get her attention. Ask her what she wants. Invite her somewhere that she would enjoy. Someplace that she knows you would not go on your own. Ice skating maybe. I hate it, but she might like it.
 
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