Originally posted by sistrMary
I notice you said "had"...what happened to it? And was your hand feeding it the norm or the exception? Everything I've read about the bluespotted ray has said something along the lines of "*If* they ever actually eat, it has to be placed on the substrate". But I've never had a bluespotted ray because I like them too much to take the chance of killing them. I'm an extremely careful saltwater aquariest...I read a lot about whatever I'm thinking of buying. I read whatever I can get my hands on, and then I ask around and see if anyone has ever had one.
I think that I just have a problem with keeping rays because they're so interesting to me. I hate to think of them dying in some guys' tank.
First of all I had a yellow stingray(Urobatis jamaicenis) not a bluespotted ribbontail ray(Taeniura lymma), different species. One's hardy and ones not. I traded it in for my whitespotted bamboo because I didn't think the 24" width of my tank is large enough for it later in life. Hand feeding rays is pretty much the norm, ask sammystingray his yellow ray ate from his hand too.
I too have read a lot about Taeniura lymma and will have one someday, but I've never read that their food had to be placed on the substrate, if the fish wants to eat it doesn't matter where to food is, it will try to get it.
Also, you have to understand some rays are very hardy, they're NOT all like the blue spotted ribbontail ray.