Jeez Reef Diver, I wish I did. I have looked through all of my pictures and the gobies were either turned the wrong way, or had their dorsal fins down. The best way to describe it is it looked very much like the male mandarins' dorsal with a long spike like thing on the front of the dorsal fin. It extended about a 1/2" above the fin, and it was white. I am assuming of course that this was the male, I really don't know for sure if it was. But the other one did not have this, and still doesn't. They sure did like each other though. They were very close all the time. I only had the male for about 1 week when he too jumped out of the tank. I wasn't so lucky though, he was all dried up when I got home. Sorry I couldn't help.