I have had my large male saddleback Anthias for a while when I decided to introduce a small Saddleback that I would hope was a female. Well, the introduction did not go so well. The male tormented the smaller fish over and over again. I was at the point of trying to remove the smaller fish. But the female seemed to just run and hide and then come right back out. Well after months of this, there seems to have had a bonding take place. I guess you do find love in all the wrong places.