Some good advice!!!!
Pump wise not a very good choice IMO....2 Mag 12 at 110W/1.5amps each, plus the heat transfer of the pump to the water....Reeflo Snapper/Dart Hybrid would be a better choice. I'll use the Dart figures, and 1 pump at 160W/1.4, and these pumps are more than adequate for the job, and can handle being throttled down and no ill effect on the pump, plus enough juice to spare to power reactors or what not you might want to add on down the road.....Eheim would be another choice over the MagDrive IMO........A little more costly, but again a better pump.
I do agree on a CL, and there are many options or ways to go about it....One way is with a true dedicated CL, and the same can also be accomplished with something on the lines of Tunze or Vortechs. Tunze waveboxes, OceanMotion devices to mention a few.....
I don't agree and never will with ever connecting your RO/DI unit straight to your system. Bottom line that is a disaster waiting to happen. Run the unit to a dedicated storage or top off container.
Automation can be done easily depending how much you want to spend.....The simpler/cheaper route is basic timers, or you can get elaborate with an aquarium controller such as the Profilux, Apex, or ReefKeeper....There are others, but these IMO are some of the better ones out there.....
Lighting is an area to focus on.....What are you plans for stocking the tank....With the statement you made earlier about having $$$ to spend, this is the area, where I'd look at going LEDs.....Either DIY or manufactured......There are several good units on the market, and they aren't cheap, but when you sit and compare the cost of bulb replacements with MH's, T5's etc, the LEDs will pay for themselves along with energy savings as well. Heat generation from your lighting is another issue, and this could also be controlled easily with LEDs....
Filtration.....I guess there's really no right or wrong way.....I'm not a true advocate of really any type at this point, only because I'm still on the fence towards ATS.....I think my biggest issue is I keep hearing it's the "cure all" or "fix", and truly there isn't such a thing.....I don't also believe in the add age of not needing water changes with ATS???? Again debatable, but feel a combination of several filtration methods combined could work well.