I live in Hamilton down about 30-45 minutes away from Cinci. Ok, you can get the sand from the lfs. I am recomend sand and not Crushed Coral, the fine sand is better IMO. CC trapes any food that you might feed to the inhabitants of the aquarium, wich causes nitrates to start raising. The sand at the lfs in the bags is considered 'dead' sand, there are no organisms in the sand. Live sand is just that "live" there is benificial bacteria in the sand along with numerous organisms, worms, pods, crustations. . .ect. You can buy the sand in the bags at your lfs, and you can make it "live". When you buy Live rock there is all sorts of life on it, pods, worms, crustations, . .. . ect. Ok, since this is a new setup with everything being new it will take at least 1 month before I would put anything in it. The longer you wait the better. This hobby requires you to have alot of pateince. What tank are you going to use? I would suggest anything over a 12g you really should have a skimmer. I would get all the equipment you need, along with the tank. Then, setup everything how you want it. . .just equipment for now. Put water in the tank and run everything for a few days to make sure everything is running properly. I highly recomend you use RO/DI water, you can buy the water from a number of different places. Or if you have the money you can buy a RO/DI system. Once you get your RO water in the tank running add your salt and sand( if you bought the sand in the bags at your lfs, if not dont place sand in tank yet). All of your equipment should be functioning properly and your water,salt,and sand should be in the tank. Let the tank settle down for a few days. Take a raw shrimp you buy at the store an put it in the tank, this will start your cycle. Give your tank about 2-3 weeks before you put anything in it. Do not do a water change at this point. If you dont have test kits you can take your water to lfs and they should test it for free. You need to keep an eye on your Amonia, Nitrites, Nitrates and PH. Ok, I am done for this post , I need to go to bed. I will finish it Monday. Read this how every many times you need to so that you understand it....................I would not take this for gospel, this is my opinion on how to do this from my experiance an from my readings. . . . . . . . . . You need to read as much as you can on saltwater tanks. Read,Read,Read,Read and Read some more. . .it only helps you in the long run.