Im having the same problem, i had an All-Glass aquarium drilled and it shattered (so it was tempered). Now i am about to get a 58 Oceanic Show drilled, its supposed to not be tempered and b/c it has a small chip on it and didnt shatter i too believe its not tempered.
Ive also heard many tanks are tempered on the bottom but not the sides, dont know how true this is but have been told that before.