I don't think the product you want exists outside the realm of aquarium controllers and DIY. Here's one cheap way to get a solution though.
Get yourself an ordinary Intermatic/etc timer from just about anywhere. Get the kind that you have to insert the little plastic "on" and "off" clips onto the wheel. Next, remove all of the "off" clips and all but one of the "on" clips. Stick the "ON" clip anywhere on the wheel... say... 12:00AM. Plug your pumps in and turn the manual on/off toggle until your pumps turn on.
When you feed, dial the timer's wheel to (using the above example) 11:00 PM to allow yourself an hour, 10:00 PM to allow yourself two hours, etc, and manually toggle the timer to "off". When the hour, two hours, whatever passes, the "On" clip will turn the timer back on and you'll be in business. Since there are no "off" clips on the wheel, your timer will run and run and never shut the pumps off. As long as the timer is ON, the ON clip can pass by with no effect. Simple.