Fill your main tank partially. If the water from your fuge were to drain into the tank then at that level your tank should just be filled if the power goes out.
Instead of relying on a siphon to return water to the tank, drill a hole a few inches from the top part of the side of the fuge. Then attach your return line to this. This way water fills the fuge then when it gets to the level of the hole it simply spills into the tube, straight down into the tank, bypassing any siphon effect.
Get rid of the ball valve on the power head line. Instead, put the output of the line that pours into the fuge above the fuge and let it pour in from the top. Don't let the line stick down into the water or you will have a siphon if the power goes out. If you put an air gap between the output and the fuge water level, then you will not have a siphon problem, so you will not need a ball valve there also.
[edit] If the power goes out then the water in the fuge will drain down just to the level of the return line then stop. Only fill your main tank to the level that this additional water from the fuge will not overfill your tank.