take the damsel out. The tank is too small and they can become very aggressive with smaller passive fish. It will be way easier with less rock. Make sure the rock has fully curred. If it has not it can cause the tank to go into cycle again. How long is the drive from your LFS? You should have very little die off if any if its a short trip. Where do you want to take the tank? In which direction? Community peaceful every gets along fish? how long and wide is it?