Ideally, as you seem to already know, adding a single fish every few months is the best way.
If that can't be avoided the second best is to set up several seperate quaranteen tanks.
Last, if you're not a believer in quaranteen tanks, overfeed your display tank, only a little at first and then increase the overfeeding gradually over a couple of weeks. This may cause you some undesireable effects such as an increase in algae and Nitrate, but it has a huge benefit that outweighs to downside. Gradually overfeeding like this will grow the additional nitrifying bacteria needed to handle the extra bioload when adding several fish at once. It will allow the system to adjust much faster than if you just add the fish.
After adding the fish, feed very sparingly or not at all for a week or so (except Anthias or other very high activity fish). Then gradually reintroduce food until you're back to feeding normally.
I strongly recommend the multiple quaranteen tanks though...