i told joe about possibly going backstage, and this is the response i got "no, i don't like that at all... just the atmosphere." to which i replied "why?", and he said "things are different when you meet celebrities". i was like "uhhh... they're just people, i'm not going to treat them like gods or anything, it'd just be cool to meet some of them because i love their music so much", and he said "well, what if you try to hug them?" i was like "why don't you trust me?", and he said "it's not that i don't trust you, it's just that i don't like the atmosphere... there'll be drugs and alcohol there... i just don't like it", and i was like "uhhh, do you really not know me that well? you don't trust me to not do drugs?". he said "it's not that i don't trust you", and i was like "well then what is it?". he said "what if i went backstage at a concert? there'll be drugs and girls everwhere"... i was like "so? i'd be happy for you because you got to meet your fav. band. I trust you enough to know you're not going to cheat on me with any of the groupies or get drunk with them or do drugs or anything". he still holds his ground that he doesn't like it. ugh, whatever. he's too overprotective of me. He can't stand me being in the same room with a guy that is not him, his best friend, or any of my family. it's cute sometimes, but other times i just want to kill him!!!