j21kickster,
I was afraid that I would offend you, and the post was not in reference to you, your knowledge, experience or anything else to do with you. I apoligize if I offended you. The reference "If I went by what I had read, and not by what I have experienced, I would have said the same thing." was not meant for you, it was referring to me.
I also stated: "many anenomes die at the hands of inexperienced aquarists", and to that I will add experienced aquarists also.
I personally feel there is a lot of things we do not know about them, or reef keeping in general. This is still a realitively new hobby, and as time goes on, I am sure we all will learn alot more.
Once again, I apologize if I offended you, that was not my intent. Hopefully we can disagree or openly discuss things without taking offense.
The part of your statment that I disagreed with was "under flourscents you can count on it to die- they need BRIGHT light". There are many different types of anenomes, and I am sure some will live in the absense of bright lights. You have the nuisance anenomes like aipstasia, there is one that is from tonga, I do not know the name, but these 2 types seem to thrive not matter what the lighting. We can argue the point, but that is not necessary.
I agree with you that anenomes should not be kept in captivity. I will not argue about the rate of mortality. Until more is known about their husbandry, they should be avoided. Unfortunately most pet shops offer them, and they will continue to die in our hands.
I have had some of my anenomes for over 8 years under 2 40W fluorescent bulbs. Again, I do not advocate keeping them. If they were not offered at the LFS, we would not have this problem. It could be considered irresponsible that they are even ordered in by the local fish stores, knowing that the majority of them will not survive in captivity, but I guess it's all about making money. Anyways, accept my apology.
Best wishes