The same argument of "sometimes there is no moon out" goes with our main daylight lights too.
Our lights are equivalent to, what, 10 hours of sunlight at noon with no waves or clouds.
Completely unrealistic.
That is why a lot of emphasis recently has at least gone into turning on actinics at a different time than full daylight lights. That simulates the "twilight" period that is actually critical on a reef.
So none of this is perfect. IMO, moonlights are a very nice advance in the hobby and do offer a bit more "realism" better than no moon ever.
Tanks were kept for years without them. But IMO, these small steps are making tanks a bit more realistic and so may help the inhabitants of the tank in small ways.