Well my bangaii did not make it, I went to my lfs today and told him of my problem he said that he make sure all his fish are eating when he sells them and that he would split the cost of another one if I would like, well I am kind of stuck on bangaiis so I did just that and he showed me this little glutton eating like craze well he is in my QT and I feed him very lightly and he eat it with gusto so I guess it was just the luck of the draw we have to deal with in our hobby but thanks people for being there for me