Ya well mine deffiantly isnt the lights, I have 250Mh 14K over it, and as for it starving I feed it silversides three times a week. Ive never heard that theory behind feeling secure or the fish idea, but I like it. I do have a fairly large pair of maroon clowns that love it and never leave it, so possibly the fish can do it however ive seen plenty of BTA's with the bubbles and the fish hosting. Maybe its just the particulary one, oh well.
And ya Ive seen that site, its good stuff, just wanted to hear some other opinions.