i feed it every other day, and not even a full cube. The trigger also killed my damsel thats why I didnt think it was a case of being overfed, can I be wrong?
yeah you can be wrong, what size is your tank? I saw another thread that you posted about a 55 gallon tank. If you have a trigger in a 55 gallon tank, it is WAY too small for ANY trigger to be in. What kind of trigger is it?