Now that is character!!! Yes, my tomato is a total ass. But, that is what makes him cool. I used to cuss at him every time I had to put my hand in the tank. I'd swear at him and tell him he was on his way to the lfs. My wife would laugh and tell me that I wasn't taking him anywhere. It is her favorite fish. He was the first one I bought and I guess he's my favorite too. One thing is for sure. my tomato clown IS the alpha fish. Everybody in the tank knows it too! They all have a great relationship. The royal gramma occasionally flares up at the tomato, and then the tomato keeps coming forward to tease him. The gramma always backs off. It seems that they all know their roles in the tank now and are happy together. I say keep him. What kind is he anyway?