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michelle l

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Originally Posted by HappyVac
I got similar problems to this.
Except, one huge difference: I'm wicked short. Short as in 4'8" in 8th grade...girls don't wanna date anybody shorter than them, so I dunno what to do.
All I do is work out all the time so at least I won't be weak xD
I've always liked short men. I like looking them in the eye before I kiss 'em! And, yes, I once dated a man who was shorter than I...I'm 5'4, and he was one of the great loves of my life. It's all in the way you carry yourself. Confidence wins women's hearts, not stature!!
 

swfreak

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THe best way to start a conversation is to make fun of them, not in a bad way, but something to make them smile. Hell a stupid joke might work, girls like guys that can make them laugh.
 

madman133

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If you decide to give a complement dont give it about her underwaer. Believe me it doesnt work i tried it one time because i thought they might find it cute of me to notice/look but instead got slapped
 

jacknjill

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ive never had a problem talking to guys because, in addition to all the girly stuff i like, i also love to play videogames, shoot paintball, and ride 4- wheelers.
just act confident, but not cocky, around her. if you had more time, you could just casually talk to her a little each day, ie make funny comments about the teacher, your classes, upcoming tests. thats what i did with the guy who sits next to me in biology and we are great friends now. but you can manipulate it to just get a foundation and base with her, and work your way up to where you can feel confident enough to ask her out.
just dont act all nervous and akward around her
 

madman133

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If you have any classes with her next semester then this might work but it could also take awhile. Sart hanging out with her "group of friends and if you can try and sit by her in class just make sure your sitting by your buds too so it doesnt look suspicious. keep hanging around her but dont talk lots until she starts to feel comfortable with you and then gradually work your way up to being good friends. Then one day spring the question on her and ask her if she wants to go out. Make sure she doesnt have a bf before doing this. For example you could be like is it really true that ur going out with so and so? Then if she says no ask if shes going out with anyone. If not wait a few days before asking her to og out.
 

happyvac

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too much weight lifting might stunt your growth, height wise
^ I've heard that's not true...but anyway, I don't do heavy lifting (i.e. bench pressing) just curls and such with a pair of five lb. weights and body-weight stuff like push-ups
 

bbb

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Next semester we might be in Alegebra II together because I don't think the school systems mean enough to give us two maths the same semester and we have geomtry together so that leaves that class til next semester. Then the only other two I can think of she would be in is English I or Biology. Maybe I'll get lucky and she'll be in a couple of them with me.
 

madman133

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Originally Posted by HappyVac
How is that a problem?
You have to pick your girl friend up to kiss here lol
just kidding its not really a problem.
 
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