Originally Posted by
Tizzo
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I bring it up often during these convos. You gotta be careful your not misinterpretting "bad parenting" with an autistic kid.
My son is autistic and he is that screaming brat sometimes. I have 3. 2 very well behaved and one that looks completely normal but throws tantrums like you wouldn't believe.
Just be careful about who ya judge...
I used to say, "a bad kid was the direct result of a bad parent" "why have kids if your incapable or to irresponsible to handle them" etc... then God gave me Chase.
I learned MY lesson.
I said I like to see pants on kids and shoes and meaning that people have their children under control. I am in no way talking about anyone whom has a handicap and incapable of the control of them self.
My Uncle was called "retarded" my whole youth growing up. I would correct them. When old enough i would challenge these people to math tests etc and he would smoke them. He has gone to college and graduated this year at 60 years old and he is mentally handicapped. While he acts like he is 5 sometimes he is extremely awsome.
I actually am saying that most handicapped act more civil in public than a lot of our youth I never see a handicapped person run thru wal-mart spraying cleaners on their buddies yelling profanities throwing stuff off shelfs. I sure have seen "so called normal" kids do it and the parents laugh it off. I get irritated as that to me is a sort of stealing they use a product half up someone pays for it and they get half a can and I usually say something to the parents and the kids and if they do not pay for it I tell the management just cuz I'm that kind of jerk,.,
So I will once again say this had nothing to do with anyone you mentioned tiz.
I might just be a jerk. I see people walk out of the bathroom not washing their hands i comment on how nasty it is. I see people groping in restaurants with kids around I tell them to get a room this is not the place.
FYI My nephew is chase and my "son" adopted after my daughter passed away is chayse.