earlybird
Active Member
Long story. Father-in-law got laid off and has no retirement or savings. Mother-in-law has never worked and both of their sons also got laid off. My wife is the only one from that family with a job. On of the sons is back living with his parents and going to school but does not have a part time job. He claims he can't get a job but I think he's being picky. Anyway, my mother-in-law watches my daughter during the day and we pay her pretty well for it. My father-in-law is delivering for a chinese restarurant but isn't making enough money to pay the rent and the monthly prescriptions for the both of them. He's filled out a lot of applications and has had a few interviews but no luck yet. That's the gist I guess.
Anyway my wife is devastated to the point that she's losing sleep and crying a lot lately. She wants to help but she's unsure what else we can do. I tell her we are doing all we can but she still wants to do more. We are paying her mom $200 more a month. They aren't really doing much about it IMO. They paid their last
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payment but won't be paying it again. They claim that they called the bank but "the bank hasn't gotten back to them."
I feel like I'm rambling but it's hard for me to feel sorry or want to help more. It's selfish but I'm concerned for my wife not her parents. I even told her that and that didn't go over to well. We helped with a garage sale and gave them the $350 that we made and they went out and bought a GPS to "help with food deliveries" claiming that it will help him make more money
. Then I hear about them going to see a movie at 9:00 when matinee prices are cheaper. Their live in son just got a $200 tattoo and they keep their house at 70 degrees. It's hard for me to feel sorry when they aren't doing anything to lessen their dilema. Wife is upset with me b/c it seems I don't care. I'm at a loss and open to suggestions. Thanks. Sorry this is so choppy.
Anyway my wife is devastated to the point that she's losing sleep and crying a lot lately. She wants to help but she's unsure what else we can do. I tell her we are doing all we can but she still wants to do more. We are paying her mom $200 more a month. They aren't really doing much about it IMO. They paid their last
[hr]
payment but won't be paying it again. They claim that they called the bank but "the bank hasn't gotten back to them."
I feel like I'm rambling but it's hard for me to feel sorry or want to help more. It's selfish but I'm concerned for my wife not her parents. I even told her that and that didn't go over to well. We helped with a garage sale and gave them the $350 that we made and they went out and bought a GPS to "help with food deliveries" claiming that it will help him make more money