first off, I am very saddened to hear your loss. i have read 95% of the posts here and am very pleased by the response of everyone.
By no means do I consider myself an expert, however, after learing ona 30 gallon, and now having a 100 gallon running very well for 9+ months, I do have some thoughts.
Look up "new tank syndrome" I didn't read anything other than that you set up the tank in Jan. 2006. +/- 4 months ago. Seems like a short amount of time to have the quantity of livestock. Did it lead to the death of everything? I doubt it, however, it probably contributed to you ammonia issues.
IMO, I would move all the LR and clean out whatever floats or is defiantely dead. Move all living inhabitants to a QT for monitoring. I have 2 Cukes and they are doing just fine.
(no pink cuke though) Let the tank clear up and keep up with the water changes until the levels are steady. And start adding fish at the rate of 1 every 2-3 weeks (just my opinion)
Another thougth I had was you mentioned damsels, and everyone on the boards knows the "D" word. :hilarious However, since those are also MIA, I was thinking the mantis shrimp possibility also. Once you get everything else out, and only have LR, you should locate a mantis. The traps work well also. Check w/ your LFS, they will usually loan you one if they are a good LFS.
Just my 2 pennies and I hope It helps. Whatever you decide to do, don't give up. So far in my 2+ years of getting back into SW, I have "lost" upwards of $900.00 between bad LFS advice, dead fish, accidents, and newbie stoopidy.
Good luck and keep us posted. Post some tank pics when you get a chance, sometime seeing what we are talking about helps too.
Dxtr