I did do the rock rinsing. They always say don't siphon the sand but I have no livestock so I would do it if I have to. Anyone else agree with sand siphoning? I'm hoping more water changes and proper buffering will help. I just got brand new test kits. I tested the samples they came with and they seem to read accurately.
Eh, you're right, it is a contradiction. Forget I ever said that. I think the problem is mainly letting things get out of hand in the first place. Now I just need to correct things. I don't know what has all happened to the tank, but what I read makes me think a tank crash has happened that is where waste ammonia and nitrate has killed off all life I.E. stagnation. A fix would be to break the decomp cycle by cleaning out as much waste as you can...