You know, I think it is ridiculous, but I really don't care. Living here(well, I'm in Irving, Tx for a while) in the Ft Huachuca area, I am blessed to be near all these young men and women who have dedicated themselves to service. I sometimes just sit and watch them from afar and feel small in their presence. Having spoke with dozens of these kids I have come to understand the meaning of honor and patriotism. I have asked them why they serve and every last one has said a variation of the same thing: to do something for their country. We can obsess over who is dating whom and what "star" is doing what because these young people are standing in the gap and making up the hedge-to quote the scripture. So Whitney gets half staff, it doesn't change the sacrifice and dedication these kids have. I one time stopped in front of the Walmart where a couple young soldiers were sitting awaiting for the base shuttle and said, "I just want to say thank you for your service. You young men are keeping my family and me safe. I can't thank you enough." The younger of the two looked up at me and said, "I love Sierra Vista. You're like the 10th person to tell me that." I just try to keep perspective and remember those who serve, those who have served and those who will never come home to smiles and cheers. So to Whitney Houston dying, I respond, "God bless you Jerry Shriver, wherever you are".