I rarely venture out of the house either......after I had my 1st child I decided there was too much risk......
IF we went out we spent the night somewhere......BUT I preferred to stay home and make a party for me and the kids....we had lots of snacks and treats......
Of course after they got older they wanted to go out
BUT I stayed home in case someone needed to call me....and the deal was if there was drinking they spent the night where they were (or called)