Yeah, I'd never buy anything (livestock) from the big auction site. The guy who is selling that particular one, is on another forum where I'm a member. He PMed me a few days ago, telling me he caught it and wanted to sell it to me. Then, he PMed another guy (who also has DMEs) and told him he bought it and wanted to sell it to him.
He claims that it's a male DME, but the only way to tell the --- of one is to have DNA tests done, which he didnt have done.
I have a friend, in Hawaii, who is collecting 7 more DMEs for me. He's catching and keeping them all for a few months, to make sure they're healthy and eating, before I'll take them.