You are not a pain, and this stuff is confusing, so don't feel bad.
Your pH is high. Your calcium is lowish. Kalk does not help that, because it is a concetrated solution with high pH and calcium. Dripping kalk dilutes the high pH in your tank water, and keeps the already high pH, high.
Keeping your saltwater tank in a high pH will not allow the Calcium to stay in solution with all the other salts in your tank water.
Calcium will stay in solution in kalk/RO water at high concentrations and high pH because there are not salts and other ions in the RO water that combine with the calcium there. As soon as you drip into your tank, it is another story.
Your kalk/RO water has sediment in it because it is a saturated solution, and some of the calcium hydroxide cannot be in solution. That is the sediment you see in the bottom of your kalk/RO mix. (never put that sediment or the precipitate at the top into your tank:nope: )
In your case, if your RO water, without the kalk mixed in, is pH8, then you have something coming thru in the RO making that high pH, and so your RO isn't really RO water. Time to change the filters? I dont' have rO setup, so I am not experienced in their maintainance.
Nor can I spell.
good luck.