Hang in there, I know there isn't any words that will comfort you, but there are people that are willing to listen and be there for you.
Glad here all is well with your tank, at lest that will be a peace of mind knowing it is doing well. I know the two of you enjoyed the tank so much.
I have a new grand daughter that was 6 months old on the 18th, she really enjoys the fish and gets all excited when I feed them. I guess it because they are moving fast at that time.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.