Originally Posted by fishguy_40
buy them all drinks??? cmon, that's horrible advice. in a bar, you sit there and act like you're waiting for a friend and let the night take it's course. women cant handle not being the center of attention, once you pay them no attention, youve got theirs.
i've heard from a number of women the following....
men are on earth because v*br*t*rs cant buy them drinks. youre a tool if you buy a woman, let alone her whole group of friend a drink.
You pay them no attention and you'll end up sitting on that barstool, ALONE, for the rest of the night...that's not the way I want to "let the night run it's course".
You buy the group drinks, so not to single out one woman, immediately. You do that and her friends are going to whine and complain about how you bought HER drinks and not them. The last thing you want is for a womans friend to talk bad about you, especially when you havent even really gotten to know her yet.
Some women are aggressive enough to come over and talk to you, with that "sit on your barstool" trick...but, the likelyhood of that happening, is about 1 out of 10 times. You find youself in a bar, where you're ignoring women and they still come find you...you'd better look around, very carefully, cause those are working girls.
You may call me a tool, my friend...but I'd guarantee that by the the end of the night, we'd find you still sitting on that bar stool, "waiting for your friend".